| - Not all members will be using social media or make themselves known (can vary on person) |
| - Ask to add on Simply Plural (many members will not be visible unless we are close. Littles will not be visible regardless of the circumstances. Tries of negotiation on the matter will result in an instant ban) |
| - Caretaker Heavy || Introject Heavy || Trauma Holders Heavy || Protector Heavy |
| - Mind the respective profiles and the boundaries of each member |
| - keep in mind the respective interaction statuses of each alter, some are fine to meet, some are dangerous to even be named |
| - Do not treat the alter as their source unless stated otherwise, this includes treating them as roleplay characters, dehumanizing them, and so forth. They are living beings with rights before they are media Introjections. |
| - Do not ask an alter for their trauma, especially a trauma holder, and especially asking an Introject of their source memories involving trauma. This will result in a ban and further steps that will not be stated here to maintain their effectiveness. |
| - Asking to meet a little or claiming that a meeting is needed to prove their existence will result in an insta-ban, they are children to be protected exactly from the likes of you. |
| - Expecting an alter to have romantic memories of a certain ship (even if it is 'your favorite' or even confirmed by the media itself), is entitled and will not be tolerated. |
| - || For Other Systems || expecting an alter to be willing to date you just because you are an Introject of the same source is wrong, even if in source you were together, is out of proportion and place, and downright wrong. Their perception and memory of source is different than yours, and there is a chance they do not want to maintain this relationship. |
| - this also stands for source family members. According to your memory you were siblings in source, and maybe according to their memory they were siblings with your source character as well, but you aren't this sibling, you are virtually a stranger. If you feel you need a more in-depth explanation as to why (although it should be common sense and knowledge), feel free to reach out and ask. |
| - Don't Shame an Introject for their source, even if it's deemed problematic, whether by fandom toxicity, issued creator, and so on. An Introject has no control over their source, just as they don't have control over their splitting. Believe me, most would rather not to exist at all than be. |
